8 Surprising Awareness Tools
Man, we've been having some beautiful weather lately! Autumn
is my favorite!!
For those of you who read my Isolated and Alone posts earlier this month (Oct. 2019), you
may be wondering if I'm still jogging my old route...
Yes, I am...
I'll be honest, I re-routed for about a week, before (quite
literally) going back down that same path again. And now I do mix up my route a
bit more.
Risky?!
Maybe...
I hadn't seen any of those guys there before... or since (so
far). Nor have I had any real problems in that area in all the years (decades)
I've been running there.
Things like what I experienced a couple weeks ago can happen
anywhere...
Yes, they have more of a chance to occur in certain places
more than others. Isolated places are definitely one place where mischief and
more can transpire... So it's good to stay in well populated places if you have
concerns.
Also, there are certain locations that have a greater amount
of crime and violence depending on the area. This area isn't a crime ridden
area.
I still like my alone time, and I know it comes with certain
risks...
So, was my chance encounter a fluke?!
Possibly...
I'll keep my ears a little more open and my eyes peeled...
And if I keep running into suspicious or potentially dangerous people I may
have a change of heart, but for now, I'll keep doing what I do.
Yes, I have taken up carrying again while I run...
But what?!?
A firearm? pepper spray? knife? taser? Flame Thrower?!
Good question...
I'll let you guess what you think I opted for... =)
If You Only Knew...
If you only knew what, where, when how (and sometimes even
Why) someone was going to get violent, it would be much simpler to deal with
the situation.
We talked about being alert & aware...
In the programs I teach we cover Awareness Skills where you
take into consideration yourself, others (including potential threats) and the
situational environment...
Good stuff...
If you can see warning signs BEFORE something happens it's
much easier to prepare for whatever 'It' is.
Here's The Problem...
When thing happen in isolation and we are present and
focused it's easy to see the warning signs...
However, that's NOT typically how real life works. Oh, no,
that'd be too easy!
We have to see these warning signs amidst Real Life of
multi-tasking, busyness, boredom, stress, distractions, family, career,
financial pressure, sickness, vacation, kids, life changes, late nights, early
mornings...
Basically fitting 10lbs of crap in a 5lbs bag!
That's Where Things Get REAL!
This is why 'Functional Grounding' is SO IMPORTANT!
If we are just going through the motions so to speak... We
can become distracted by our own lives... and that can result in lacking
Tactical Awareness, also know as Situational Awareness.
Staying clear, alert and aware is easier when your life is
in balance... Functional Grounding is a fancy term for living a balanced life.
Taking care of yourself.
Now I could give an entire course on this (hey wait a
minute... we DO have an entire course on this!), but not now. Today I'll just
share this...
8 Surprising Awareness Tools!
1. Physical health:
It's easy to let things like exercise and diet go by the
wayside once life get busy. But that's the only body you're going to get and it
needs to carry you until the end of the game. That's why it's critical to
continue to keep your body strong and healthy enough to enable you to do the
things that make life worth living. Simple not easy! Here are the basics: REST:
8 hours per night & some vacation and down time every so often. DIET:
Nothing crazy, just reasonable amounts of healthy fuel. EXERCISE: Strength,
Flexibility/Mobility, Stamina/Cardio. Keep moving!
2. Family:
How balanced do you feel with your family? What's your
relationship like with your spouse? Your kids? How about your parents and
extended family members? Family ties are the tightest relationships you should
have in your life no matter how busy things get at work. Family are truly the
largest part of your support network and you'll never miss them more when
you're at your lowest point.
3. Social:
Do you have a robust network of friends or not? Do you have
a group of folks like you hang out with regularly, maybe go shooting or Krav
class? If not, it's time to start building these kinds of relationships. Having
people around you that you like and trust is one of the best indicators of
living a long life. If you are sacrificing relationships like these because
you're too busy, you're clearly not in balance.
4. Financial:
Are you living paycheck to paycheck? Hand to mouth? Do you
spend what you make? Or are you saving some for a rainy day (and
retirement?!)? If you're working too
much, and you don't have the money you need, something is clearly missing in the
equation. Financial stress can crush a person and family. Mind your spending
habits. Another simple, not easy step.
5. Career/Job:
It doesn't matter your job or profession... Even if you love
what you do, its called work for a reason! It's not good to hate going into
your job day in and out. And it's not just the job, it's also the life that it
creates for you and your family. You have to weigh all of these things out.
It's worth measuring how all that time you are investing in your work is paying
off... Not just financially!
6. Civic:
How much time are you able to invest in the things you care
about in your community? That can mean anything from volunteering to serving on
the PTA or coaching a sports team-anything that turns you on when you give of yourself.
Think of it as your attitude of gratitude. If you haven't made enough time to
give back, you're missing out on a real emotional payback, because you are
rewarded by the act of giving. And the key here isn't just signing checks-time
and talent are the real gifts.
7. Personal Development / Expression:
Make sure you save some time for yourself. Hobbies, travel,
retreats, whatever excites you, but do something 'just for you'. It'll make you
better at everything else too!
8. Spiritual:
The final aspect of living a balanced life is your spiritual
side. Connecting to something bigger than yourself! This could be anything from
taking a walk in the woods to making a trip to church, synagogue, temple,
mosque, or whatever fills up your spiritual cup. We need to renew ourselves
when we're down-and it's something that can be easily neglected. Sometimes our
personal pressures and problems seem insurmountable... Connecting to something
BIGGER than ourselves, helps us to put those things in a better perspective.
Lifestyle?!
That's why building a Protector LIFESTYLE is so important!
You can be a beast at whatever the skill is required to take
care of the situation, but if your life is wrecking you, it may inhibit your
ability to deploy that skill in the moment.
It's a Marathon... AND a Sprint!
You can't spend your entire life sprinting!
Sorry!
You'll eventually burn out, crash into a wall or blow a
gasket!
Yes, there are times when you'll have to 'Sprint', but
remember, you're in this for the long haul, so if you think you can sprint all
the way through, you're in for a rude awaking!
You gotta know when to put on the brake and when and how to
'floor it'!
That, my friend is the art!
If you want to really protect yourself, your loved ones and
those in need, you'll have to be able to have the capacity to do both!
If you're interested in hearing how other 'hard chargers'
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See you next time!
Keep Going,
~Craig
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