Using F.E.A.R. to Your Advantage




I was watching a few episodes from the old Alfred Hitchcock Presents series and it made me think...

In case you don't know...

Alfred Hitchcock was an English film director and producer. He is one of the most influential and extensively studied filmmakers in the history of cinema. is most famous being "Psycho".  He had a very unique style which lead to him being known as "the Master of Suspense."

 
What You Don't See...

Hitchcock's mastery of getting people on the edge of their seats wasn't by what he said or what he showed them... 

He did it by what he DIDN'T SAY or what he DIDN'T SHOW!

That's right, his books and movies, he very cunningly uses space...

The infamous scene, in Psycho, where the gal gets stabbed to death in the shower he never actually shows her getting stabbed! 

The suspense and terror comes from what you DON'T SEE! 

Hitchcock set the stage for your imagination to fill in the details. 

Genius! 


Pandemics, Unrest & the Media

Remember when you were a kid and afraid of the dark? 

You didn't have to wonder what was waiting for you under your bed, in your closet or in the basement. Your mind writhed in response to your fears, constructing both vague undefined fearsome feelings of dread and vividly clear representations of what would tear you and your world apart! 

How does this happen?!

Easy... 

What's suggested is more powerful than what is shown.

All we need is a suggestion and our minds will do the rest! 

This is a very powerful process that is used both intentionally by the media, politicians and people who are trying to manipulate.

Fear is very viral and contagious. It grows exponentially and can be very manipulative. It is based in emotion not logic. Even though the seed of the deception can be planted by something that may be logical or factual. These things can be used selectively to frame something in a certain way to tell a certain story or support an agenda.


One Definition of F.E.A.R.

One definition of fear is...

False 
Evidence
Appearing 
Real

And this way of looking at fear is rampant right now in our current Covid-19 pandemic situation.

If you don't want to become overrun by FEAR, make sure you shed light on the subject. 

You have to be a critical thinker and get good information that is as accurate as possible. This often mean you have to do some research, ask questions and get multiple points of view. Not just the one you want to believe in or one that supports your views. 

It's easy to get sucked down into a very dark and deeply fearful rabbit hole... And if you do, it becomes very difficult to make good decisions and move forward in a productive way. It may make it difficult to move at all! 

Yes, of course there are some serious things going on right now, but what will make it even worse is if you succumb to a bunch of F.E.A.R. or false Evidence Appearing Real! 

So be careful! 



Another Way Of Using F.E.A.R.


This week on our Private PeaceWalker Membership, I share a specific conflict communication method that teaches you how to deal with violent people who use vague threats in attempt to exert control and get what they want from you. 

You'll learn what to do and not to do, when dealing with this type of predator behavior. When you understand how to leverage this type of influence you have a much greater chance of staying safe and being successful in critical situations like these.

This method will show you the importance of what you DON'T say. Learning to frame your conversation in this way can make all the difference when dealing with this type of potentially violent person. 

You could call this method...


The 'Hitchcock'...

You can get that training and a whole lot more when you join us in the PeaceWalker Private Membership. 

What you learn will help you to come out of this crisis safer, healthier and more prepared than before it even started!

Here's the link for details and to Join:

https://peacewalker.net/about


All the best,
~Craig


Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

An Uncomfortable Situation

Image
  Funny pic (and movie) about a not so funny situation… In training as in Life, it’s better to treat people with dignity and respect. However… What does that look like in the moment? Being that I’m teaching a Women’s Assault Prevention and Response Workshop this weekend - it’s probably a good time to talk about… Uncomfortable Situations Let’s talk about training at the academy for a minute… We run open co-ed classes at the local academy. What does that mean? Men and women train together, but we don’t stop there. People of different skill levels, backgrounds, ethnicities, sexual orientations, careers, religious beliefs, political affiliations, ages, injuries, pre-existing conditions, life experience, training expectations etc. etc. train together! We ALL work together! Overall, I think it’s better this way. Of course sometimes there’s static, you know, conflicts, and misunderstanding. When something happens, most of the time it’s just that, a misunderstanding… Sometimes people ...
Read more

What'd You Say?!

Image
  You ever have a conversation with someone who really lifted your spirits? How about having a conversation with someone who’s a real downer?! We spend a lot of time talking to people. Matter of fact, talking is one of the most under rated and under trained aspects of protecting yourself. It’s much better if you can talk your way out of a bad situation, rather than having to resort to some form of physicality. This is why we spend so much time on sharing effective communication frameworks in the PeaceWalker course. But All of that Aside… When we think about communicating, we often just think about talking to other people. We forget how we talk to ourselves! You may have heard it called, “Self talk.” All day long we talk to ourselves. We carry on an inner dialogue in our heads that only we can hear. Unfortunately, this means it's very easy to be hard on ourselves. There's something about privacy which makes it easy to say the things you would never say out loud to another living...
Read more

Cracks in Your Foundation?!

Image
  Last night we had one of our weekly coaching calls for the PeaceWalker Evolution Course. What a great call! Rob and Jenn, a couple of the Level II - Momentum folks (people who graduated from Evolution last year and came back for the second Level.), were tasked to run the meeting as part of their training. I must say, they did a stand up job! The topic of discussion was building an Unshakable Foundation. WTH is that!? It’s basically the way you live. Your habits. What you do in your day to day life. How do you train your… Body  - Your physical health Mind  - What you’re filling your head with Mouth  - How you’re communicating Heart  - How you foster your relationships Why?! Without a solid foundation it’s difficult to remain balanced. When you are not balanced, it more difficult to stay calm, cool, and collected, (especially) under pressure. As I often say,  “You can’t hide crazy.” (It eventually comes out!) Regardless… You don’t have to be in the PeaceWal...
Read more